Have I mentioned that I love tennis?
Even though I am a pretty decent player, I don’t consider myself an athlete, which people find confusing. How can you play tennis and not be an athlete? That makes no sense.
Well, when you say it out loud it doesn’t! That’s why you go to therapy. Because the mere act of saying something out loud helps you realize that some long-held belief has no logical basis whatsoever.
Nevertheless, there are certain things I believe an athlete should be able to do:
- They should be able to catch a ball with their non-dominant hand. All of the tennis players who were once softball players can do this.
- They should be able throw a tennis ball over the fence and onto the court when they are fetching a ball for a player on the court.
- They should have an NTRP rating of at least a 4.0 or higher.
- They should be able to play multiple sports.
- As a child, they were chosen early in the team member selection process during gym class.
However, there is some evidence that disputes the validity of my criteria:
- Tennis does not require being able to catch or throw the ball without the aid of a racket.
- There are players at the 2.5, 3.0, and 3.5 levels that win national championships.
- Michael Jordan was not a very good baseball player. I don’t think he was that good at golf, either.
- When Michael Jordan was in high school, he didn’t make the basketball team.
- Even athletes vary in how “athletic” they are.
The problem is, feelings don’t have to be logical, so reason isn’t always useful in changing my mind (see Positive and Negative Feedback post). In cases like this, I often tell clients that sometimes believing in yourself requires a leap of faith.
So I’m working on my jumping ability, and it’s getting better. Maybe I’m an athlete after all.