Today is my blog’s one year birthday. Woo hoo! Who would have thought that I could write 159 posts? Before I started this blog, I never showed anyone a single paragraph of anything I had written. And I had to do all this research just to figure out what a blog was. So blogging for a year is truly an accomplishment.
In honor of this special day, I thought I would see how far I’ve come in my practice of self-acceptance. My first 4 posts covered some of the most common themes in my blog, so I thought I would give an update on where things stand in these areas.
1. Night Owl Syndrome. I have come to the conclusion that, although my mood is vastly improved when I abide by a “normal” sleep cycle, I cannot get up early unless I absolutely have to. Now that I’m working again, I’ve been going to bed earlier (12-1 a.m.) and waking up earlier (7:30 a.m.), with an occasional short nap thrown in when I have time. Even though I prefer to sleep more, I function pretty well on 6-7 hours.
The only problem is, knowing this will not make me wake up early when I’m on vacation again. But I’m not going to worry about that right now. I’m just going to enjoy being in a good mood.
2. Divorces. As of August 14, 2014, I am officially divorced and am finally at peace with it. We are on as good of terms as we can be. In fact, he just strung my racket last week and informed me that I had a nail in my tire. My first reaction when he pointed out the nail was fear about not having someone around to inform me of things like the condition of my tires.
But then I thought that perhaps it wasn’t an accident that my ex happened to be there when I dropped my racket off and that he happened to notice the nail in my tire. Maybe God was looking out for me, just like when my car broke down on the freeway over the summer. So I will try to have faith that He will continue to do so.
3. Massages and Stress Relief. I love my job, but it is stressful. The commute is hard on my body, and seeing back-to-back clients is mentally and emotionally taxing. I’ve started getting massages again, but unlike a year ago, I don’t obsess about how much they cost anymore. I accept that it’s something I have to do for my body. I also have a phone session with my therapist once a month, even if I think I don’t need it, because I feel better when I talk to her.
And this year, I’m going to try working from home one day a week to cut down on my driving and to preserve my time for blogging. I’m a little nervous about waking up early and being productive that day I work from home, and about fitting all my clients in the other 4 days, but we’ll see how it goes.
4. Knitting and Relationships. I still love a challenge. I still like complicated patterns and I am still drawn to complicated relationships. I am proud to say that I have been single for almost a year, and I am surprised to find that I enjoy my freedom. I’m actually a little afraid to start dating again, because I don’t yet trust myself to know when a relationship may not be worth the effort. So for now, I’ll limit my challenges to complicated patterns.
My latest project received the most likes of anything I have ever posted on Facebook. Not sure whether to take it as a compliment or an insult that my knitted top looks better than I do.
Congratulations on blogging for a year! I hope to see more of your posts in the future!
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Thanks!
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Congrats on one year and I can definitely relate to the Night Owl syndrome these days. Oftentimes I can’t go to sleep because I get an idea in my head about what I’d like to write about next and sometimes can’t fall asleep until I write.
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Yeah I’m about to blow what I said about going to bed by 1 am!
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Don’t forget owls are wise 🙂
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Happy one year anniversity! It sneaks up on you fast
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Thanks Bill!
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Congrats on your blog turning 1! Seems to me so much has happened in the span of 1 year. Good job!
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Thanks Lux! I guess it is a lot of change now that you mention it.
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Way to go! Congrats…look forward to more blog posts
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Thanks Marie!
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Congratulations on a year! I’ve really enjoyed how honest and thoughtful it is, and I look forward to many more thoughtful posts (for as long as you find a useful exercise, that is).
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Thanks Patsy! I always appreciate your feedback and encouragement.
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Great post, always so honest, great one year achievement! The knitted top is gorgeous! By the way… I find the Night Owl Syndrome epidemic among younger adults now…cannot get up early, need to nap during the day…maybe the traditional sleep cycle is on its way out? To your second year Christy…all the best. 🙂
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Thanks Stress Bubbles! I would like to think of myself as young and part of a sleep trend that is on its way out, so I like your take on it!
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