Last year I told you how blogging is my new boyfriend, second only in my heart to tennis. And after a year of bloggng, I’m proud to say that our relationship keeps getting stronger. I think that’s why I’m in no hurry to find someone. Because blogging is a much more suitable parter in many ways. For example:
1. Blogging is a much better listener. I talk a lot. I want to share every thought that I have about what book I’m reading, what new insight I have from my latest therapy session, what happened in my last tennis match. In my relationships I usually started conversations with, I have a bunch of stuff to tell you! Usually stuff that they didn’t find all that interesting. Go figure. But in my blog I can talk as much I want, whenever I want, and in whatever level of detail I want.
2. I sleep better at night. I know a lot of people say that one of the hardest parts of being single is sleeping alone, but I have to disagree. I sleep much better by myself. My blog doesn’t care about my night owlness and that I don’t get out of bed until the afternoon sometimes. It doesn’t get annoyed because I toss and turn a lot. It never pulls the covers off of me in the middle of the night. And most importantly, blogs don’t snore or sweat or fart.
3. My blog doesn’t care that I’m obsessive. I have to admit, I even annoy myself sometimes with my obsessiveness. So I understand why I get on other people’s nerves. But my blog doesn’t care. I can check my stats a hundred times a day and my blog doesn’t say it needs a break from me. I can talk about the same things over and over again, and my blog won’t be like, you’ve already said that. If I decide to wake up in the middle of the night and send out a bunch of friend requests or look for people to follow, my blog doesn’t tell me I’m crazy.
4. My blog is always there for me. There have been periods over the last year that have been lonely and painful. I don’t think I could have made it without my blog. It has given me an outlet and an audience that I’ve never allowed myself to have. It validates my feelings. It hears my confessions. It helps me to let go, but in my own time. And when I’ve shared some of my lowest moments, it connects me to other people and reminds me that I am not alone. That I am never alone.
So thank you, blog, for helping me develop a better relationship with myself, and with all of you.
Funny! Blogging is also not possessive and encourages you to meet more new people 😉
This is true!
There are aspects of singlehood I miss very much (like sleeping alone, especially if you are married to an insomniac!). Won’t go as far as saying that blogging is better than my husband but it’s a nice corner or one’s own to have.
Yes, the ideal situation is to have a husband who is supportive of your relationship with your blog.
That is a great post. Thank you Christy. I was just about to share it somewhere. I really like you blog, it is a bit similar than mine but your posts have more quality than mine. I like it that you are obsessed with blogging. I am too. So I have a question or suggestion. If you go to my blog you can actually post a guest post. It can be a new one, this one (my suggestion) or just some advertisement for your blog.
I am pretty active on social media and constantly promote my blogs (yes I have several). So I would really be happy to get in touch with you. Let’s interact, share and get more traffic.
Wow! That would be great! I would love to do that. I will check out your blog, too. You can email me at email@example.com.
Reblogged this on dustbury.com in reserve and commented:
And let’s face it, I do a whole lot more blogging than I do dating.
Ha ha! Me too! Thanks for reblogging!